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When Have Women Not Been In Combat?

January 29, 2013 By Kimberly A. Cook 10 Comments

by Kimberly A. Cook          (Twitter@ WarriorTales)

About damn time. The final lifting of restrictions on women in combat last week is about 237 years late. Women have fought and died for America since before it was a country. Women even dressed up as men to serve in the Revolutionary War. Better late than never, I guess.

Me and my M16 in the waiting area before heading out to the rifle range at Fort McClellan, Alabama, Fall 1975. (For safety, no ammo until we got to the firing range)
Me and my M16 in the waiting area before heading out to the rifle range at Fort McClellan, Alabama, Fall 1975. (For safety, no ammo until we got to the firing range)

The combat exclusion has always been a discrimination and generational issue to me. We have made strides since I entered the Army in 1975 as part of the new “all volunteer force” after Vietnam. The Army NEEDED women to fill out its ranks. Now, 38 years after I received “voluntary” M16 rifle training, military women will be able to achieve rank and advance alongside their warrior brothers without the handcuffs of unequal opportunity holding them back from combat duty.

These exclusions were never about women being capable to handle the jobs; it’s been about sexist male top brass and America being able to handle women coming home in body bags. Women have two choices when it comes to war, we can be warriors or victims.

One of my World War II veteran students asked me what I thought about women in combat many years ago. He thought women were “too pretty” to get shot.

“You have to look at it from my perspective,” I told him. “Who said it was okay to shoot our men? Bummer of a birthright. Besides, I am no less a citizen of this country because I have different plumbing.”

Is military service for everyone? No, less than one percent of our USA population serves in the military. So if a woman or man can pass the tests for a job, they should be allowed to do the job. When I served with the Fourth Infantry Division, we had Army cowgirls who could breakdown five-ton truck tires with a sledge-hammer and men in the same outfit who couldn’t pick up the sledge. Test for the job and not the person’s plumbing and it will all work out.

Combat should always be a last resort for our nation, but there are times when the bullies of this world will not back down and action must be taken. When that happens, all our citizens are needed to share the burden of national security.

While we welcome home all our returning veterans and take on the large job of veteran reintegration after two long wars, we need to listen and help them heal with love and understanding. We must let all our veterans, Reserve, Guard and active duty know that they and their stories are important. It’s the least we can do as we benefit from their sacrifices.

I especially encourage my fellow women warriors to write their stories because so often our female history is lost. I salute my warrior sisters past, present and future. Hoo-ah!

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Got Your Ducks Organized?

January 25, 2013 By Kimberly A. Cook 2 Comments

by Kimberly A. Cook          (Twitter@ WarriorTales)

Holy cow cakes! Lots of writers/people checked out my post on Tuesday, thanks everybody. I’m trying to catch up with all the great feedback. Always amazes me when real people are actually out there and make a comment. Thank you for the support.

Part of any new year is getting organized and right now I am working on taxes. Oh joy. I’d rather be writing! But this “other” paperwork needs to be completed too. So for inspiration I found this video about getting your ducks organized. Fits the Quirky Friday fun theme, so enjoy! Have a great weekend and keep writing what you love.

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So You Want To Know How To Get Published?

January 22, 2013 By Kimberly A. Cook 6 Comments

by Kimberly A. Cook           (Twitter@ WarriorTales)

It might be easier to explain how to build an Ark. From scratch. But since a friend asked for a writer friend, let me give this a shot. A long time ago in a galaxy far away before the Internet, traditional publishing lived in New York City and writers tried to get agents who then submitted their work to publishing companies who decided who would get published.

Then along came the Internet in the mid-1980s and web pages and writers were called content providers. (Always hated that title.) A new product called ebooks came into being in the early 2000s and soon a group of rebels (authors and writers) realized they could overcome the Death Star of New York publishing houses and authorpreneurs/publishers were born in the great Indie publishing skirmishes which continue today.

Are you a cookie, cupcake or pie writer?
Are you a cookie, cupcake or pie writer?

So one decision you need to make about getting published is whether you want to be with the traditionals or join the rebels. But wait! Before you make that decision first you need to figure out what kind of author or writer you want to be for the long haul. This is crucial. I wrote a blog post about this very topic in November 2011, so please read it here.     https://kimberlyacook.com/2011/11/01/which-dessert-would-you-choose/

To summarize the post, decide if you are a one book cookie, a two book cupcake or a career pie. Before you publish any book, please decide if this is a career, a hobby or a one time event. It makes a big difference on how you spend your time and book money.

If you want to go the traditional route, research is in order. Check out www.writersdigest.com and check the listings for agents and publishing houses and the genres they accept in the annual Writers Market, both online and in hard copy. If you want to publish a gift book or children’s book, research those markets. There is a real difference between wearing your writer/art cap and your business/marketing helmet. We have to be able to do both jobs when it comes to the world of publishing.

If you decide to go Print On Demand, self publishing or ebook only, read the blogs I list under Writizing Biz for some great advice and folks to follow. There are pirates and scallywags out there who will take a ton of your money and not deliver the finished product you hoped for, so be diligent in your research and ask advice from others. To thine own book and career path be true.

Don’t be a writer unicorn who gets left off the ark by playing silly games. Strap on your business gear and get ready to enter the publishing wars; power to writers and readers!

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Ducks And Eagles Oh My!

January 18, 2013 By Kimberly A. Cook 1 Comment

by Kimberly A. Cook          (Twitter@ WarriorTakes)

Quirky Friday post is late today because I’ve been a bit bummed about Chip Kelly leaving our U of O Ducks and heading East to coach the Philadelphia Eagles. (By the way, when you live in Oregon, anything past Montana is back East to us.) But now I’m over it.

Since we don’t have an NFL team in Oregon, I’ve decided to adopt the Eagles. When I started watching football back in the stone age, the Vikings were my team, then the Jets with Namath and then I settled with the Raiders and Snake Stabler. Still a Raiders fan, but I can adopt Philly too.

Felt better after I watched Chip’s press conference yesterday, so thought I would share. Think there are a lot of good points from his football philosophy that translate to writing. Plus, he’s fun to watch when he messes with the media. So if you’ve got some time, check Chip out. I’m looking forward to the NFL Fall! Happy Quirky Friday!

http://youtu.be/5S7CjK8jaoM

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Are You A Writer Carrot?

January 15, 2013 By Kimberly A. Cook 3 Comments

by Kimberly A. Cook         (Twitter@ WarriorTales)

The first full week of this year left me with a mashup of experiences. While this is not unusual for any week, how they all intertwined into a theme surprised me, so I’m combining them here.

On New Year’s Eve I was dashing from the garage to the back of the house and saw a flash of orange in farmer bunny’s cement wheelbarrow. “What is that?” There are not really any colors in the backyard right now besides the cold green herbs and the crazed red blooming Christmas Camilla, much to the delight of the hummingbirds.

The fabulous golf ball carrots from farmer bunny's wheelbarrow.
The fabulous golf ball carrots from farmer bunny’s wheelbarrow.

Turns out I forgot to harvest the mini-carrots I planted in bunny’s planter. They kept growing. Since the first good freeze was coming that night, I quickly grabbed the small shovel, mucked them into a plastic lettuce tin and brought them inside for clean up. Harvesting on New Year’s Eve, a nice surprise.

Next I picked up one of Elizabeth Berg’s books I had in the read pile and started in on “The Pull Of The Moon.” Great book. It explores the challenges of women turning 50 and how dealing with change affects us. Two pages near the end of the book really touched me, particularly one sentence: “but the meat of the thing was this; you accept change in your life or you might as well be dead.” Blunt and true.

Then a vendor from my day job referred a writer to me who wanted to know about publishing. Since I try to keep my day and writing jobs separate, once again the worlds crashed together. I sent him a few quick tips by email about indie publishing and our Willamette Writers group. He responded that he wanted to submit his work for someone to publish. Ah. Huge topic to try to explain today’s traditional vs. indie publishing business models. But it reminded me I’ve learned a lot on this publishing adventure, including to watch our for pirates and scallywags.

So I will post a blog next week about starting from the beginning for new writers and recycle one of my previous blog posts about figuring out what type a career you want before you choose indie or traditional publishing. Will try to give a “Reader’s Digest” condensed version as opposed to the “War and Peace” tomb this could require.

So how does all this mashup together? I’m a writer carrot. At the age of 10 I knew I was a writer and I wrote. My writing journeyed through youth romance fiction, poetry, high school journalism, plays, newspaper journalist and photojournalist, public relations writer, romance fiction, magazine writer, screenplays, web writer, non-fiction author, online media manager, videographer and back to romance fiction. Still writing, still changing, still learning.

The lesson in every New Year we might miss is if we look back and forward, we figure out as writers we’re lifelong learners who keep growing where we’re planted regardless of technology or life changes. That gives me a great deal of comfort as I try to figure out what I want to be when I grow up. However, I can say, “I’m proud to be a writer carrot.” Grow on!

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Have You Had Recess Today?

January 11, 2013 By Kimberly A. Cook 4 Comments

by Kimberly A. Cook                      (Twitter@ WarriorTales)

Here we are with a fresh start in a new year trying to figure out what we want to be when we grow up. Sometimes the best thing to do is get out of our adult heads and get in touch with our inner toddler. To help us out with that exercise today, it’s time to visit with our favorite 300 pound plus zoo baby, Lily.

More than one month old now, Lily is living with the herd at the Oregon Zoo and enjoying playtime with her mom and aunties. There isn’t sound at the beginning of this video, but you can hear Lily roar near the end.

Maybe the best thing to do on this Quirky Friday is to go out and play on recess. (Personally, I think we should still have recess and especially nap time with milk and graham crackers for adults.) So to Lily and all the toddlers in the world who can teach us a thing or two about playing and enjoying the moment, play on!

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