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What Can Writers Learn From Olympians?

August 14, 2012 By Kimberly A. Cook 2 Comments

by Kimberly A. Cook         (Twitter@ WarriorTales)

The Olympics Games are over so we mere mortals can get back to the yard work, laundry and writing. Besides learning what a physically fit woman’s abs are supposed to look like, there are lessons we can all take away from the games.

Preparation and effort are paramount. While Michael Phelps is happy to not hit the cold pool water at 6 a.m. every morning now, knowing he is going to work on his golf game might give Tiger Woods pause. No matter how popular any author is, there are always other authors in the wings. Keep writing.

It’s the journey, not the medals, for writers. We learn a lot about ourselves by writing. Not only what we choose to write about, but how we use description, details and emotions to touch our readers. We also find out where we are on our own hero’s journey and what challenges we are trying to solve through our craft; if we pay attention.

Sometimes it is not our time. While the Olympics makes time keeping and scoring an Olympic sport in itself, a book’s life and acceptance is not graded the same way. Neither is an author’s life work or career. Each of us decide what our goals and “gold medals” will be, not some committee. Thank heaven. Works for us and we don’t have to wear matching swimsuits.

Time is finite. We all only have so much time on this planet to get our work done. We carbon-based life forms don’t last forever. Write because it is what you want and need to do, not because someone else thinks you “should” do it. Figure out how to carve writing time into your schedule and keep at it.

Celebrate. When you achieve a goal have a party. Even if that party is you dancing with the cat or celebrating with a walk around the block and a cupcake. No need for fireworks, but cheering is allowed.

The next summer Olympics are in Rio de Janeiro starting Aug. 5, 2016. What writing goals will you have accomplished?

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Polar Bear Paparazzi Cameras Take A Beating

August 10, 2012 By Kimberly A. Cook Leave a Comment

by Kimberly A. Cook         (Twitter@ WarriorTales)

Readers think book authors make a ton of money. Not sure how that urban myth got started, but we are not all pulling in Stephen King’s royalties. But one good thing about being authors is even the bestselling ones rarely get hunted by the paparazzi. Fine with me.

When my first book came out friends thought I was going to be rich and famous. No and No. In fact, I prefer comfortable and anonymous, look what fame did to Elvis. But it appears even Polar Bears have to deal with voyeuristic photogs.

Pretty sure these are scientists trying to help them out, but one has to respect the way the momma Polar Bear deals with the invasion of her privacy. She’s just trying to get a nap. In the words of all of us who know, don’t mess with Momma. Even the BBC should know that. Polar Bears Rule! Happy Quirky Friday!

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Writing a Book? Some Assembly Required

August 7, 2012 By Kimberly A. Cook 3 Comments

by Kimberly A. Cook                (Twitter@ WarriorTales)

Perhaps it’s too much Olympic Games viewing, but I decided to take on a monumental challenge this past Sunday. It was time to gut it out and assemble my new tv stand. While I inventoried and laid out all the pieces, found all the accessories and gathered my tools, it occurred to me it’s much like writing a book.

Be very afraid, these are just the drawer parts.

First, everyone thinks there are directions which give all the answers; trust me, in either case they do not exist. Authors can tell you their process, but each writer has to find their way to write a book. Sharing writing tools is what authors do to help new writers, but our tools may not be the right tools for you. Use trial and error to find a writing method which helps you. Be prepared for your process to change over time.

A member of my writer support group learned this step when she realized switching from being a non-fiction author to writing her memoir was a brand new journey. She learned it was a very different process from her business writing methods. She had to learn not only how to write a memoir, but how SHE would write her memoir. Sally is creating her own set of directions to build her book which fits this new genre.

Reading the tv stand assembly directions, it was easy to veer off course. This also happens when writing a book. We authors think we know what our story is about but then two unexpected pieces come together and we go down a new plot path. Works with a book, but not putting together a tv stand.

When all the pieces finally do come together, three hours later for the tv stand – five years for my first non-fiction book, it’s all worth it. Because at the end of a book writing marathon, we are all crafting the stories we need to tell and which exist only in our unique imaginations.

Because while tv stands have pre-cut parts and fairly good directions, when completed we all build the exact same tv stand. (Okay, some people have parts left over. I didn’t. This time.)Writing books is not building cookie-cutter “some assembly required” furniture. We don’t all want to write or read the same book.

Our gold medal goal is to write books which touch our reader’s hearts and make them turn the page to discover what happens next. We can use writing coaches, writer organizations, editors, and attend conferences; but in the end we have to write in order to discover how WE write.

The same way our Olympians have to put in the time, struggle, dedication and practice; in the end it comes down to each of us doing the work. Go for the tv stand AND writing gold!

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A Bach Of A Flash Mob

August 3, 2012 By Kimberly A. Cook Leave a Comment

by Kimberly A. Cook        (Twitter@ WarriorTales)

It appears we are having a quick heat wave this weekend in Oregon. Since our normally duck webbed-feet don’t do well when the temperature climbs past 90 degrees, the forecast 99 temp on Saturday may melt us.

Combine high heat, August and no one getting any sleep due to watching the Olympics and the zombie apocalypse could occur. So in the interest of public sanity and safety, I offer up this fabulous flash mob to soothe all of us heated savage beasts. Happy Quirky Friday!

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Try The Flip Side When Looking At Story

July 31, 2012 By Kimberly A. Cook 1 Comment

by Kimberly A. Cook              (Twitter@ WarriorTales)

Trying to gain perspective about our own writing is like getting the right clothes on; it takes practice to know what really looks good for our body type. The same is true for editing our own work. When we are so close to what we are doing, forget objective, at least try for some distance.

One way to do this is to consider our story from a 180 degree view. What would happen if we considered the flip side?

Front-side of peacock at Petersen Rock Gardens in Redmond, Oregon

Everyone is familiar with the front side of a peacock, but how about the flip side? On my recent vacation I had fun taking this fellow’s picture. He was all about the strutting and performing for us, which can distract one from the real show. Imagine my delight when he turned around and I got the view below. A completely different perspective.

When a reader opens our story and begins to make assumptions about who we are as writers and craftspeople, let’s make sure even our backside looks good. Use correct grammar and punctuation, good story lines, fabulous characters and hidden secrets which move the character’s story arcs along to a rewarding conclusion.

If writing a contemporary light romance, consider how a mystery would impact your story. If we like writing horror, how would a sci-fi element change your characters? Right now I am reading “A Discovery Of Witches,” by Deborah Harkness and I love it; vampires, witches, daemons, time travel and all. Sometimes more is better.

Don’t box yourself into thinking your story is one-dimensional. Good writers torture their characters with problems and challenges, then clean it all up at the end with lessons learned. Think of your storyline as a playground and see what happens. If nothing else, it will help you feel stronger about your plot line or open new avenues you have not considered.

Remember to think about the flip side. Let’s make sure even our fuzzy peacock butts, er, story butts look good!

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Happy Olympics Watching With Your Bunny!

July 27, 2012 By Kimberly A. Cook 1 Comment

by Kimberly A. Cook           (Twitter@ WarriorTales)

It’s Quirky Friday again and time to watch the opening ceremonies of the Olympics. To celebrate the chance to turn most of America into couch potatoes while we watch really fit people compete, thought I had found the perfect video; a bunny eating popcorn. But wait, then I saw this lady showing off her prized Bunny and I knew the Gold Medal sized rabbit deserved the stage.

So enjoy the Olympics this weekend and imagine what this rabbit could do in the long jump! Happy Quirky Friday!

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